angry words are usually heartfelt

so many people want to be seen but they don't want people looking at them.

"He's hard of hearing and his listening is even worse."

so many people want to be heard but are afraid of being questioned.

I've heard that the opposite of being scared is to be angry. It was explained that if you are scared you will turn and run but if you are angry you will stay and fight. I guess often fleeing and fighting are considered opposites so the motivation for both things must be opposites. I don't technically agree but there are many times when I'll try to get a person angry so that the truth will come out.

If it works sometimes I'll hear "I didn't mean to say that."

Yeah but is it true?